"Betrayed.!" "Wronged. I'll never forgive him! How can he do this to me? It's unforgivable!!" "After all he's done…All the pain, humiliation, hurt .."
" Forgiveness in infidelity? Absolutely unthinkable!"
" I can forgive, but how do I forget?"
Have you ever had an experience that has left you hurt, bruised, shaken?
Have you every bristled when you heard the names of people and reminded you of the painful experience?
Have you ever blamed, or blame your dissatisfaction or failures on someone something- whether it be your boyfriend, girlfriend, lover, friend, parents or family?
You may have seen tear jerking moment in soap operas – where an important person in the family on his/ her deathbed surrounded by a few sobbing loved ones- musters enough energy to mumble a few words, or makes a speech then drops dead ( just at the right time)? They either tell the family to be united, convey their love which has never been verbalized ever before, or ask for forgiveness for what they have done…. they they all wail loudly after he/she is gone…
According to Wikipedia, Forgiveness is the mental, emotional and/or spiritual process of ceasing to feel resentment or anger against another person for a perceived offence, difference or mistake, or ceasing to demand punishment or restitution
On a personal level, being forgiven and forgiving someone is crucial to self improvement and personal growth. It has a strong impact not only on a personal level, but also in relationships, and also in businesses.
Stumble it!
"Betrayed.!"
