"If a person has ugly thoughts, it begins to show on the face.
And when that person has ugly thoughts every day, every week, every year, the face gets uglier and uglier until it gets so ugly you can hardly bear to look at it
Do you abuse yourself? Often, abuse is spoken of as harming someone else. But have we considered self abuse? Abuse is defined as any thing that is harmful, injurious, or offensive or improper treatment. Abuse also includes excessive and wrongful misuse of anything. Misuse is defined as incorrect or unknowledgeable handling. So when you handle yourself incorrectly or in an unknowledgeable manner, you may actually be abusing yourself?
Do you abuse yourself? Do you sleep late, work late, eat junk, neglect your body, worry excessively?
Do you find it hard to get out out of the trap you've got yourself into? Do you find you are swimming in a mire of quicksand unable to get out? Do you find you have gotten weary and disillusioned with life?
The cover head line of Time magazine, October 2005, reads: "The Great Retirement Ripoff: Millions of Americans who think the will retire with benefits are in for nasty surprise. "
The industrial age is over. No longer does a good job or a college education guarantee you your income, the meal on your dinner table forever. Change takes place faster than you can blink your eyelid. There is also a dichotomy. The rich are getting richer, and the poor getting poorer. It is a worrying trend. Raising financial IQ is no longer a option that can be exercised. It is a necessity.
In Robert Kiyosaki and Donald Trump's recent book on Why We Want You to be Rich- they state 10 reasons why this world is facing serious financial problems.
Welcome to the First Edition of Inspirational Nuggets.
Inspiration- we all need a breath it now and again to edge us on our journey through life. And that spark of inspiration can be triggered often by events, insights, experiences, oddities, anything……
In this inaugural edition, I am honored to have so many contributions, and so many excellent insights. It is hoped that with this collection of posts you will be inspired.
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To Everyone who Contributed - You are very much appreciated for all your excellent contribution. Every piece is inspirational and I am honored to have your posts featured on this site.
If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you fall asleep, I would tuck you in more tightly, and pray the Lord your soul to keep. If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you walk out the door, I would give you a hug and kiss, and call you back for just one more.
If I knew it would be the last time I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise, I would tape each word and action, and play them back throughout my days If I knew it would be the last time, I would spare an extra minute or two, To stop and say "I love you," instead of assuming you know I do.
All of us have fears. Some are healthy, some are not. Unhealthy fears can stop us from being our best or achieving what we are potentially capable of. We all have talents, abilities, dreams, aspirations. But we don't get to achieve our full potential or achieve what we really want. There are 3 main types of fear that can stop you from achieving the life of your dreams.
1. Fear of failure 2. Fear of success 3. Fear of ridicule
1. Fear of failure is quite normal . But if it becomes excessive it can be paralyzing. Fear of failure can be seen in the following situations:
Habits -they make or break us. It has been said that habit is either the best of servants or the worst of masters. It must be carefully chosen and cultivated . In the previous post, there were 21 suggested habits to improve your personal life.
"Habit is habit and not to be flung out of the window by any man, but coaxed downstairs a step at a time" Mark Twain.
Habits are recurrent, often unconscious patterns of behavior that are acquired through frequent repetition. Habits are usually formed through repetition and can be developed or stumbled upon. Once we form a habit, it takes over and forms us. The sum total of our habits will them shape our character, thoughts and actions and lives.
"For things to change, first I must change."
"It is easier to prevent bad habits than to break them." Benjamin Franklin
"The chains of habit are generally too weak to be felt, until they are too strong to be broken."
Here are 21 Habits to develop to improve your personal life.
Relationships give meaning, life, joy. We were created to love and beloved. At our center, we live, work, breathe, so that we can have fulfilling relationships – with ourselves ( ie, positive and fulfilled), with our creator, and with the people around us. But relationships mean vulnerability. And at times, when the sparkle is gone, learning to trust again is not a step many fear to take.
To love, we have to give of ourselves and that can feel like taking a big risk. But not loving and not having loved and been intimate can almost be like not having lived.
Here are 10 tips for creating more fulfilling relationships with a committed partner.